"Love the man that loves you." I don't know who said it originally, but my father said this to me. He explained not to hand my love to a man who doesn't love me first, but wait to give my love to a man who love me already. It sadly look me years to really understand this, and a lot of heart ache, but now I am waiting for such a guy. And I don't get hurt anymore now that I really take this quote to heart.