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 Post subject: Is this wrong?
PostPosted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 1:32 am 
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For fifteen years now, I have been with the same guy and we have two kids but, never got married. Guess, I didn't want to. To me it's easier to just be able to walk out the door than get a divorce.
I can't say anything is wrong with my relationship. I really think I am bored with the same thing everyday. I need a change of life.
Is it bad that I want this change or is it bad that I am already looking before I leave?

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it isn't bad that you want a change, but it's bad that you're looking before you leave.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 9:38 am 
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What am I to do then? I am lonely because him and I don't talk like we use too and it's not the same after all this time.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 9:55 am 
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you didnt want to get married but have children with him? you accept to stay with him for 15 years because of love or your children?
Why dont you change the situation, warm up your love ?


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 7:21 pm 
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Have you honestly tried talking to him about how you feel. Not holding anything back, but really sitting down and discussing your feelings? I'm confident that if you've done that, then you will have your answer about leaving him or not.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 11, 2011 6:04 am 
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Talking to him is like talking to a brick wall.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 11, 2011 9:05 am 
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Well it appears your mind is already made up. Its irritating to try and date a brick wall. *cough*my ex*cough* No point in conforming to unhappiness.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2011 11:06 am 
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Since I only just joined this site and this forum, your posts are not current. Have you left your "partner" by now? How are your children handling the situation? My concern is always for the children who often feel to blame when their parents are no longer together.


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