I am of the persuasion that everything works together for good
I am of the persuasion that one can find the good in a bad situation and make the best of it. However, there is no way that everything that happens is for the good. If you ended up with an awful disease, you might have a difficult time finding how it was for "good", but you could make the best of it, of course. However, those who are living in extreme poverty and hungry and suffer on a daily basis until they meet their ultimate death... well, I don't see the "good" in any of that.
that not every unanswered prayer is bad
Not every unanswered "prayer" is bad, but some unanswered prayers are most certainly very bad.
It may be unacceptable at first but in the long run, a person realizes that it was in fact a blessing in disguise unless that person still chose to dwell in misery and failed to discern the workings of God in his circumstances
Well, this would depend on what circumstance we're talking about here. Some illnesses and circumstances just don't have that silver lining.
If i cannot achieve what i really want despite my best efforts and hard prayers, will i eventually blame my God?
I don't blame anyone. I don't blame "God". But then I don't give credit to the mythical "god' either.
I refuse to do this even if the "doubting Thomas" in me calls my attention but i find difficult situations in the past to be in my favor. It made me stronger, resilient and more faithful to my faith
I've survived some difficulties too. It made me a stronger person. I had no need to believe in medieval myths in order to find that strength within.
To accept the nature of God is to deny our own nature and faith makes it possible.
Not sure what you're getting at here..
A solemn submission to believe, to let go of every doubt, to surrender the uncontrollable struggles of life, to accept in one's heart that change is meant only for the better, only then and when this wall of doubt is completely removed, that God shall begin to truly manifest first in our personal lives, then to others with whom we are attached in one way or another.
Basically, you're saying that we should accept live as it is, as there's not a whole lot that we can do about it, and I agree. I agree that one should be as positive and accepting as possible. However, I can do that without having to believe in some mythological being.