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PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 6:51 pm 
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i have a girl friend. she was raped at a younger age and i know very little about it. she doesnt like to talk about it but im very curious who would do this to the love of my life. im really afraid to bring it up thinking it will just bring bad memories. what should i do?

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:44 pm 
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Who's interests are you serving. Surely if you love her, then you'd leave it alone until she wants to talk.

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I disagree, you should ask whether she wants to talk about it, because since you love her you would like to understand her. My girlfriend's parents have alcohol problems and she feels much better since she has someone to talk about it with.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 20, 2009 6:31 am 
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First apologize for bringing it up, then tell her that if she is ever ready to tell you, you will listen and you won't judge, and then let it drop until she brings it up again.

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